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Thursday, October 30, 2008
"Some people say that you don't know what you got till it's gone. But it's really not like that. You always know what you have. You just never thought you would lose it."
What if letting go of the person is the right thing to do? You have to admit that, sometimes, breaking up is your only option. You may love that person so much… so much so that you have to let him/her go.
You break up, and still remain friends. But is friendship enough? Will it ever be enough? When all you can think of every time you're with that person is how much you so wanted to be with him/her again? Every time you look at him/her you feel nothing but regret, pain, and love. Regret for letting him/her go, for not fighting. Pain for seeing her smile and be happy in the arms of someone else. And love… love that you know will forever be there; love that will haunt you for as long as you live.
Seeing him/her now, you can't help but think of what might have been… what could have been. Will it make you happy? Absolutely. Will it make him/her happy? You'll never know.
What's left to do for a person who can't have the reason for his/her happiness? The reason for his/her existence…
That's what happened to my friend. Let's just call him/her X. S/he fell for this person, Y, years ago. And up to now, s/he can't help but still feel the same whenever they're together. X has had relationships after Y, but still nowhere near the same. S/he can't find the "spark" or the "glow" s/he feels whenever s/he's with him/her.
S/he tried so hard to let go of him/her, but to no avail. Just recently, Y messaged him/her saying:
"[Diba] the first time that I sang was when we were in second year, and I promised myself that you would be the last person whom I'm going to sing with. Then, here goes L asking me why he never heard me sing. Not even do I sing with him, and then I told him about that, that I would not sing for anyone else. And so, I wanna change that. I would want to show him that I can be comfortable with him and that I would sing for him. And so, I surprised him at RB. Everything was smooth sailing 'till he asked me to sing one song seriously. I found myself lost. I'm not yet ready to sing for him. I'm not that comfortable yet, and so even if I try, I just could not sing. That's why he didn't enjoy it coz it was just him who was singing all the time. My bad. I don't blame him. I feel that that night was just an ordinary night. Nothing much to remember."
You break up, and still remain friends. But is friendship enough? Will it ever be enough? When all you can think of every time you're with that person is how much you so wanted to be with him/her again? Every time you look at him/her you feel nothing but regret, pain, and love. Regret for letting him/her go, for not fighting. Pain for seeing her smile and be happy in the arms of someone else. And love… love that you know will forever be there; love that will haunt you for as long as you live.
Seeing him/her now, you can't help but think of what might have been… what could have been. Will it make you happy? Absolutely. Will it make him/her happy? You'll never know.
What's left to do for a person who can't have the reason for his/her happiness? The reason for his/her existence…
That's what happened to my friend. Let's just call him/her X. S/he fell for this person, Y, years ago. And up to now, s/he can't help but still feel the same whenever they're together. X has had relationships after Y, but still nowhere near the same. S/he can't find the "spark" or the "glow" s/he feels whenever s/he's with him/her.
S/he tried so hard to let go of him/her, but to no avail. Just recently, Y messaged him/her saying:
"[Diba] the first time that I sang was when we were in second year, and I promised myself that you would be the last person whom I'm going to sing with. Then, here goes L asking me why he never heard me sing. Not even do I sing with him, and then I told him about that, that I would not sing for anyone else. And so, I wanna change that. I would want to show him that I can be comfortable with him and that I would sing for him. And so, I surprised him at RB. Everything was smooth sailing 'till he asked me to sing one song seriously. I found myself lost. I'm not yet ready to sing for him. I'm not that comfortable yet, and so even if I try, I just could not sing. That's why he didn't enjoy it coz it was just him who was singing all the time. My bad. I don't blame him. I feel that that night was just an ordinary night. Nothing much to remember."
Damn.
For someone you've loved so much to say this to you, what would you feel?
Will you try to take him/her back? Or will you try and help him/her move on and be happy with who s/he wants now?
It's up to YOU.
Only you know what's best for you… what's best for the both of you.
Don't forget to smile! :)
-XOXO-
For someone you've loved so much to say this to you, what would you feel?
Will you try to take him/her back? Or will you try and help him/her move on and be happy with who s/he wants now?
It's up to YOU.
Only you know what's best for you… what's best for the both of you.
Don't forget to smile! :)
-XOXO-
Labels: Love and Relationships, Scribbles
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