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Wednesday, May 13, 2009
People usually find it hard to express what they really feel. They find it difficult to explain or put into words the emotions that burn inside them. What you see in them or what you decipher from them may not be what they're exactly feeling.
How well we know someone usually doesn't matter. Most of the time, people don't show half of what they actually feel.
Take for example the feeling of jealousy…
Jealousy, no matter how simple the word is, can make even the strongest man vulnerable. Such a potent force that once it is unleashed, you can't help but feel broken. You feel like you've lost a battle you once thought you'd already won.
Most of us would sometimes describe a jealous person as someone who lacks trust or who needs to trust his/her partner. I beg to differ.
Jealousy…
Is it normal or not?
For some it is a feeling that surfaces for the lack of trust.
A poison that can kill every relationship no matter how strong the bond is.
Weird, but true… One question though,
"Is it all worth it?"
Having placed it in a normal scheme, can you still consider it as something you can avoid?
Jealousy is a sentiment that I believe can never be avoided. Yes, it accounts for the absence of trust, but we usually forget that insecurity never fails to enter this feeling. As obnoxious as it may sound, all of us have insecurities.
Even for the most superficial things you have, in one way or another, it can add up to the elevation of INSECURITY
Some people have ended their relationships for there's this sensitivity that enters. They get fed up for rationales so weird to be taken up, yet it can, and it does lead you to the verge of ending a good connection to someone.
It is a normal feeling, yet it has this piece that can make the other budge off to another.
It is something one cannot keep away from.
Knowing these things, how should you handle it?
Is it right to keep yourself closed and just turn your mouth shut when you feel that way? Or is it much better to let your feelings out when you get jealous?
Well, nothing's correct here. Yes it can destroy ones bond, yet it can never destroy the feeling that you have built within that bond you have worked on so hard.
It is a feeling that's normal, and a feeling that can never be put out. If it does make you end a relationship, the question would be, "Was it the sole reason for the break-up?" or perhaps, "Is the love just wasn't enough?
See, anyone can say that that there's just too much of it, but taking it into a deeper side, can anyone so in love take that reason just to let go? I guess not. You feel that way and that is normal, but taking the love side in, I think it will never be a cause to something bad if there's this love that binds two persons so intact and in concern to keep the feelings growing.
It is a typical feeling that anyone can deem, may it be for the absence of trust, or for some phony insecurities. It is surely an emotion that can be an instrument to measure the love for one another.
Stereotypically, it has the worst side, nevertheless, whether we admit it or not, it is always a great feeling to know that there's this someone that feels that way when you get closer with another person.
Life's a game; you play well, you succeed.
You play dumb, and certainly you lose.
Jealousy??
It's good :)
How well we know someone usually doesn't matter. Most of the time, people don't show half of what they actually feel.
Take for example the feeling of jealousy…
Jealousy, no matter how simple the word is, can make even the strongest man vulnerable. Such a potent force that once it is unleashed, you can't help but feel broken. You feel like you've lost a battle you once thought you'd already won.
Most of us would sometimes describe a jealous person as someone who lacks trust or who needs to trust his/her partner. I beg to differ.
Jealousy…
Is it normal or not?
For some it is a feeling that surfaces for the lack of trust.
A poison that can kill every relationship no matter how strong the bond is.
Weird, but true… One question though,
"Is it all worth it?"
Having placed it in a normal scheme, can you still consider it as something you can avoid?
Jealousy is a sentiment that I believe can never be avoided. Yes, it accounts for the absence of trust, but we usually forget that insecurity never fails to enter this feeling. As obnoxious as it may sound, all of us have insecurities.
Even for the most superficial things you have, in one way or another, it can add up to the elevation of INSECURITY
Some people have ended their relationships for there's this sensitivity that enters. They get fed up for rationales so weird to be taken up, yet it can, and it does lead you to the verge of ending a good connection to someone.
It is a normal feeling, yet it has this piece that can make the other budge off to another.
It is something one cannot keep away from.
Knowing these things, how should you handle it?
Is it right to keep yourself closed and just turn your mouth shut when you feel that way? Or is it much better to let your feelings out when you get jealous?
Well, nothing's correct here. Yes it can destroy ones bond, yet it can never destroy the feeling that you have built within that bond you have worked on so hard.
It is a feeling that's normal, and a feeling that can never be put out. If it does make you end a relationship, the question would be, "Was it the sole reason for the break-up?" or perhaps, "Is the love just wasn't enough?
See, anyone can say that that there's just too much of it, but taking it into a deeper side, can anyone so in love take that reason just to let go? I guess not. You feel that way and that is normal, but taking the love side in, I think it will never be a cause to something bad if there's this love that binds two persons so intact and in concern to keep the feelings growing.
It is a typical feeling that anyone can deem, may it be for the absence of trust, or for some phony insecurities. It is surely an emotion that can be an instrument to measure the love for one another.
Stereotypically, it has the worst side, nevertheless, whether we admit it or not, it is always a great feeling to know that there's this someone that feels that way when you get closer with another person.
Life's a game; you play well, you succeed.
You play dumb, and certainly you lose.
Jealousy??
It's good :)
Don't forget to smile! :)
-XOXO-
-XOXO-
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